Sunday, June 11, 2006

Usually,
I can bow my head
And take the blows.
the
Blinding words
the
Deafening looks
of
Disapproval.
Of well meaning
family,
friends,
strangers,
Myself.
Saying many different things
But translating into only one
Thunderous crescendo -
"You're doing it all wrong!"

...and they're probably right.

but then,
from nowhere,
comes that
soft,
gentle,
insistent
whisper
about him.
sweet
joyful
carefree
exuberant
little him
with a spirit
as bright as
his smile

....Something whispers to me
Something tells me
that if I
just let him be
if I
just let him become
if I
just let him grow
untethered

free

from the weight
of my
constant
'advisement'
then he'll grow up
to become

What he already is.

21 comments:

David_on_the_Lake said...

Nicely put Genendy...
Your child is very lucky
to have a mother
willing to
take the blows
for him..

Genendy said...

Thank you. :)

kasamba said...

How fantastic!
You sound like an amazing Mom!

Genendy said...

aware - interesting.

kasamba - thank you, but I still have a long way to go.

the only way i know said...

moving...

good on ya!

Genendy said...

The only - Thank you!

BTW, do you have an email address? I'd like to ask you something.

socialworker/frustrated mom said...

wow first time here. Great poem.

Genendy said...

glad you decided to stop by, and... thanks :)

Bonnie B said...

I love it! Genendy-- you put it so beautifully. The tension was perfect. The line breaks-- perfect. You are a fantastic poet.

Sometimes those sweet gentle whispers are what keep us grounded. Wow-- you are amazing.

I am so glad I came to visit. I will be back.

Genendy said...

Wow. Thank you so much Bonnie! I visited your blog today for the first time and when I read your poem I thought 'look at the way she writes poetry. Next to her, I'm just a wannabe!' And then to come here and see the comment you left me, was just amazing.

I'm so glad you came to visit and looking forward to seeing more of you, on your blog and mine. :)

socialworker/frustrated mom said...

Sure anytime! Nice to meet new people.

anonym00kie said...

great parenting attitude, your little one's lucky

Genendy said...

SWFM - :)

Anony - thank you, (and welcome to my blog!)But as I said, I still have a long way to go.

the only way i know said...

hi genendy

it's

ltpatriot@yahoo.com

Genendy said...

the only - thanks but it didn't work :( It says the account has been disabled or discontinued.

FrumGirl said...

Genendy when did you start blogging again?

Very profound... we learn from mistakes, ours or others... but how do we find the right balance? That is something I am dealing with in parenting as well....

Genendy said...

Hi FG! Well, I didn't officially start blogging again. One day, I just turned around, and what do you know, I was blogging again! I don't really know how exactly it happened. :)

The right balance - that ever-elusive key to parenting! If only I could find it.

Stacey said...

This is the first time I've been here. Great blog. I love the poetry. So many good poets out there, including you!

Genendy said...

Thank you Stacey. By the way this isn't your first time here. You've commented here before. :)

ggggg said...

Very true.

Genendy said...

lv - thank you.